• applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 days ago

      Hot dommy mommy who dresses slutty as hell every day giving clear unambiguous work assignments and strong motivated overall direction, while frequently providing direct positive and negative feedback? I’d write any kind of software for a boss like that.

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    this has a 50% chance of being bait, but i do think it’s funny whenever someone’s dystopia is clearly just their fetish. like that time jordan peterson posted medfet porn and labelled it with scaremongering about the CCP

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        Right? I mean, the libs would be fine if such an event like this were to happen safely and consensually, limited to the willing. But the artist thinks, what…? Paints a picture of non-consensual mass bondage? How the heck would that even work?

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    Hopefully not an open pit mine, they’re terrible for the environment. But otherwise, yes, and I would absolutely wish it on my worst enemy. GDP would go through the roof until the novelty of BDSM in the workplace wore off. xD

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    I don’t get the whole masochism thing. Like I like a hot powerful woman in skimpy shiny clothes and boots, that I won’t argue.

    But getting hurt, well, hurts.

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      It’s because you have a healthier brain. some of us have our wires crossed in such a way that a lil bit of getting hurt actually feels sexy. Most masochism isn’t getting full-on tortured though, a lot of it is more sharp, quick pains like smacks or whips or bites. Obv there are more extreme cases, and you can kinda think of those as the wires getting really crossed.

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        There isn’t anything unhealthy about it as long as you indulge it in a healthy way.

        Spicy hot food is also painful. Does that mean that people who enjoy eating habaneros, Scotch bonnet, etc. have unhealthy brains?

        Wait. On second thought, don’t answer that.

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          You’re confusing a societal concept of health for a biological one. Generally speaking, we classify any brain that does not function as expected as abnormal. However, you wouldn’t necessarily define that person as “sick” or “unwell,” in the same way that you wouldn’t call someone with synesthesia or without a visio-spatial sketchpad “sick.” It’s just not functioning as expected.

          People eating spicy food is actually different, because there can be a couple different reasons for it. If it’s a case of receptors misfiring and indicating pleasure instead of pain, then yes they’d have unhealthy brains. I think typically spice enthusiasts have abnormal tongues though. Usually their receptors have dulled either due to repeated exposure to spice, genetic differences at birth, or external factors like coal dust.

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      Pain releases endorphins. It isn’t for everybody, though. If you don’t get it, then it isn’t for you. There are tons and tons of fetishes out there that most of us aren’t going to understand.