The radiator makes unbearable noises throu out the night, which drives her insane. We think that this is due to air pockets in the pipes, we can hear crackling and water drops.
The heating system is common to the whole building, and I cant turn off hot water.
How do i open this shit
You are desperately deflecting from the fact that you assumed OP’s gender. How about we start with that acknowledgement and move on from there. If you like we can dissect every little facet of this silly post we’re arguing over. Imho - and given that you already judged me so harshly - here’s some back. You seem to have some issues with men, you appear to be looking for abusers everywhere, probably from past trauma. Once again, I’m terribly sorry for whatever may have happened to you, but it’s affecting your judgment in a terrible way and it makes you seem toxic. I hope you’re aware and working on that. I’m sure you can overcome it if you acknowledge it.
I like how you have no issues with everyone else presuming OP’s gender given the prevalence of heterosexuality, but as soon as a woman does it in a majority male forum like Lemmy, you start mentally breaking down.
I hope you overcome your incel tendencies, learn to stop grasping at straws, and accept that what ever hate you have towards women is unfounded and a product of your delusions.