Maybe I’m not fully awake, but I don’t understand how that stat could be calculated. How the hell would anyone know the kinks at play in a representative subset of all abusive relationship that have ended in murder?
As I mention in another reply the stat refers to abuse not kink play. Likely polled abuse/DV victims and then followed up with them, but that just a guess. I’ll link the study later if I can track it down.
Oh yeah non consensual choking is a “make a plan to get out now” situation.
In kink I’m actually still generally against it, but in a “this is way higher risk profile than a lot of people think” way. Banning it won’t help, proper kink educational resources will.
Maybe I’m not fully awake, but I don’t understand how that stat could be calculated. How the hell would anyone know the kinks at play in a representative subset of all abusive relationship that have ended in murder?
They interview the murder victim.
A seance, you say? Choked to death, you say?
As I mention in another reply the stat refers to abuse not kink play. Likely polled abuse/DV victims and then followed up with them, but that just a guess. I’ll link the study later if I can track it down.
Oh yeah non consensual choking is a “make a plan to get out now” situation.
In kink I’m actually still generally against it, but in a “this is way higher risk profile than a lot of people think” way. Banning it won’t help, proper kink educational resources will.