Do you consider ghosting people a reasonable way to deal with today’s overwhelming and constant information and notification overload? Or do you find it offensive and unfriendly?
Would you equate it to a person ignoring you irl or is ignoring a text different?
For this post let’s assume the people involved are or were in the past friends, and ghosting is leaving someone on “read” for more than 2 days.
Honestly, who tf cares if I get left on read for a week? People have their reasons, their life and they go through shit, you won’t always have the ability or will to reply and that’s totally understandable, I would at most get worried and hope they’re okay, maybe text again cause they could have also just forgotten lol
As long as it has an explanaition I guess tho, if not I could see why some get upset. Same when it’s something important.
Only time getting ghosted ever mattered to me was when talking to my therapist about future appointments and my life plans, sent a long text and she never replied, still don’t know to this day why that happened and it feels weird. She’s still active on all her socials too and had contact info besides the place we were chatting at, so I can really think of excuses girl just hates me xd