• Llamalitmus@lemmy.ca
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    16 hours ago

    Given what they said regarding disagreeing with Trump’s current actions, why did you feel like your response was the best way to engage?
    After the repeated examples over the last decade, I think everyone in the world should have learned by now that shame, aggression, and shade dripping with schadenfreude doesn’t change opinions or actions.
    If you are truly concerned about making things worse for others, you might want to examine the way you interact with other human beings. Because the short term dopamine isn’t worth contributing to the division that’s been made worse by targeted, algorithmic influence.
    We are all being fed a curated version of reality designed to appeal to our biases and stoke fear and outrage. I think we need to learn to show some grace to people who we don’t fully agree with, who are trying to reach across the divide, and who might be coming to terms with the ways in which they may have been misled or caught up in an enticing movement.
    And I’m not saying this is easy. It certainly isn’t satisfying. I love barbed and bitter witicisms. Being shitty to someone who I feel deserves it scratches this itch in my brain that I am neither proud of, nor can deny. But it’s also the definition of being selfish, since it helps no one. So idk, you do you I guess?

    • ubergeek@lemmy.today
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      6 hours ago

      Being sad that your willfull ignorance is causing massive harm to millions, isn’t even a start to undoing that harm.

      Want to make me sympathetic? Do the work to fix that harm.

    • CXORA@aussie.zone
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      13 hours ago

      I’m not sure being nice here would do anything either. So why bother?