• AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works
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    “I can see how this looks strange,” Brill said. “But I assure you that Winnie’s intent was purely innocent. In the Chinese culture, money is often given to others in a gesture of friendship and gratitude.

    Chinese here, that’s pure BS. The only time money is given is during Chinese New Year (Lunar new year), and only from adults to children / teens. It’s not a gesture of ‘friendship and gratitude’.

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    “I can see how this looks strange,” Brill said. “But I assure you that Winnie’s intent was purely innocent. In the Chinese culture, money is often given to others in a gesture of friendship and gratitude. Winnie is apologetic and embarrassed by any negative impression or confusion this may have caused.”

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      I was about to comment that that explanation only counts if it’s in a little red envelope…then I saw the picture…and it was.

      Not sure why she put the red envelope in the chip bag, though. That part’s kinda weird.

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          They do, kind of. But it’s specifically a Chinese New Year’s tradition. You give money in a red envelope for luck, well-wishers and as a blessing for the recipient. However you choose to define that, is up to you. It’s just meant as a kind gesture.

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            Red packets are normally given from married folk to kids, teens, and maybe young single relatives. They are not given between two people who have no connection other than work as a gesture of ‘friendship and gratitude’. As a Chinese, I find it pretty annoying that they’re using our culture to BS their obvious bribery attempt.

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              As someone who lives in a predominantly Asian community, I can say 100% that what you said isn’t true. We get red envelopes from our boss every year, and everyone in the shop shares them amongst each other. Not “everyone gets one from everyone”…but you do give them to your closer coworkers. I have a stack of them myself, specifically for this reason.

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        Yeah if you’re giving a red envelope, you don’t hide it inside another bag/object

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    $160 bribe too, like is that all they expect? Go out to dinner one night or something for a single bribe heh.

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    I’m fucking amazed that New York City keeps electing such corrupt fucking mayors. You would think in a city like that they would do better. We’ve known for a long freaking time though that Eric Adams is corrupt as hell. Why is he still the mayor over there? Why aren’t people doing more to get him ousted? Why aren’t there protests all over the city? And absolutely no surprise whatsoever that Adams is a former police officer.