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LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone to Ask@piefed.socialEnglish · 5 days ago

Where do you lurk but not comment?

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Where do you lurk but not comment?

LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone to Ask@piefed.socialEnglish · 5 days ago
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  • nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    I lurk the WomensStuff community when it comes across my browsing because it’s a cool community but don’t comment because I’m a man!

    • LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOP
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      Thanks Nimble!

      • nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        Ofc, thank you for hosting a great community ^^

    • neidu3@sh.itjust.works
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      I normally block communities for my own good. I blocked WomensStuff for their good. I don’t have the same self control as you do.

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    Self-hosting communities. I like the idea and do self host if you consider renting a VPS selfhosting, but can’t fit/afford an extra PC (let alone a server rack) in my flat to properly participate in the community.

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      A VPS is a valid system for self hosting. I know a lot of folks who have local servers and use VPS depending on their needs

      You’re welcome to join the discussion 🙂

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        Thanks for the encouragement! Guess I should really put my shyness aside and just dive into the community discussion :) (I do read and learn from others already, but was too shy to make posts)

    • JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world
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      VPS is absolutely self-hosting.

      • Lazycog@sopuli.xyz
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        For some reason I thought it’s home-hosting only. But I love the two answers I got and think I’ll try to participate there!

  • RisingSwell@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Almost everywhere. 95% of the comments I type I don’t even post.

    • LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOP
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      Well we’d love to hear them!

  • cloudless@piefed.social
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    Reddit. I don’t want to contribute my content to them. But I do visit their niche communities.

    • LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOP
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      Fair. Which ones do you like?

      • cloudless@piefed.social
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        Just a few examples…

        r/Pomeranians r/cloudygamer r/EmulationOnAndroid r/HomeKit r/Hypertension

        • LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOP
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          Yep they’re niche… hopefully you get more of what you like here

  • hendrik@palaver.p3x.de
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    To be honest, I lurked a bit in your (other) community when you moved. Naturally I can’t interact, since I don’t identify as a woman… I’m still a bit unsure whether that was a good thing to do, but I was a bit curious what you do there and what kind of atmosphere such a community has. Now I know, and I can stop lurking. (Seems to be an excellent place, btw.)

    With other communities I don’t really notice that much. They’re all in a big feed and I engage with some posts and I don’t interact with others. That’ll make me a lurker with some communities and topics. While the ones I have to contribute something to, will end up with my comments underneath.

    • LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOP
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      Thanks we’ve been helped by having brilliant members there! It’s a lovely group

  • razorcandy@discuss.tchncs.de
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    I like reading about tech, science, and current events but don’t feel like I know enough on these subjects to contribute to the discussion.

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      If only more followed your example!

  • LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOP
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    I mainly just lurk in news communities although I do comment sometimes

  • Blaze (he/him)@piefed.zip
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    Maybe I comment too much

    Edit: !gardening@lemmy.world and !foodporn@lemmy.world

    I like the content, but I’m very bad at both.

  • donut_delivery@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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