• socsa@piefed.social
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    5 days ago

    When I was like 8 years old my friend’s mom told my mom that I gave her the middle finger, which was a lie, and got me punished so I couldn’t go to my other friend’s birthday party at the water park and I still haven’t forgiven that bitch. I will get my revenge in this life or the next.

      • Call me Lenny/Leni@lemm.ee
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        6 days ago

        You say that as if you aren’t brand new to the community, going by your date. From someone who isn’t new to someone who is, I would like to clarify that he himself has said that how you describe him and his gesture (which also evokes other issues) doesn’t match his intent behind the gesture, which is what I meant by that word and is the ruling that the ADL and every fact-checker rests on, though I wish to respect rule 5 here.

        As for the other thing, what would it say about your accusation if it was revealed that the only reason I have joined any questionable groups this year is that my own marginalized friends were concerned about what others conspire about them and said they needed someone on the inside to act as a buffer? I have friends who I would walk through Hell for. Given what I’m saying, what do you think I’m doing?

    • Secret Music 🎵 [they/them]@crazypeople.online
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      6 days ago

      Ha! I also had someone accuse me of being an alt account of someone else the other day. And the impression that I got from that accusation was that it was a case of “you’re not falling in line and following the script and you’re saying something unpopular, therefore you must be a bot / troll.” And I’ve definitely seen people around here accusing others of being alts in various comment sections too. To the point where I’m going to just stop taking it seriously.

      At this point, I don’t care what the cliquey in crowd around here says or dictates. I’ll make up my own mind. I’m sick of both the internal politics and a lot of these grumbly neckbeards around here too.

        • Secret Music 🎵 [they/them]@crazypeople.online
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          6 days ago

          Oof it’s just alts all the way down lol. I’ve actually received a DM out of the blue for interacting with that person. And maybe it’s true. But the fact that I was also accused not long ago makes me wonder if there’s DMs going around behind my back whenever anyone interacts with me too.

          All I can say is that this is a mess that makes everyone involved look bad.

          • Blaze (he/him)@piefed.social
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            6 days ago

            It’s probably because your account is new and not related to an established account.

            I myself keep the same username between my alts to make it easier for people to recognize me. Otherwise new accounts very active from the get go may appear as potential alts

            • Secret Music 🎵 [they/them]@crazypeople.online
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              6 days ago

              That’s just paranoid to me. I had three or four different accounts over my time at Reddit. And I’ve had multiple different usernames since the forum days. I’m pretty sure a lot of people here never just had one Reddit account or username between those. And I mean, come on. You have to shop around different instances here.

              At this point, if someone is going to make accusations like that despite linking to my old people in this profile’s bio and vice versa, then they’re probably just unpleasant and paranoid people.

              • Blaze (he/him)@piefed.social
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                6 days ago

                despite linking to my old people in this profile’s bio and vice versa

                I missed that, then you’re all good.

                By the way, I just realized we’ve talked before! How do you like your new instance?

                • Secret Music 🎵 [they/them]@crazypeople.online
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                  6 days ago

                  I just realized we’ve talked before!

                  This is a problem I’ve noticed between different apps and interfaces. I’ve actually had this username set as my screen name on my old account for a couple of months now. But I notice that different apps seem to randomly choose whether they’re going to display usernames or screen names. For example, Eternity displayed screen names, Summit only displays usernames unless you go into a profile.

                  It’s pretty cool here. I’ve mainly made the switch so that I can see that alt community. Which is actually just as dead as all of the other interests I like to regularly interact with lol. And I’m pretty the one person around here that regularly posts content I enjoy is pretty sick of seeing me by now.

                  So I’ve actually started using F*c*b**k a bit again, sadly. At least I can doomscroll and comment on things without feeling like a nuisance or loser lol. That’s where I’m getting my supply of memes from right now. Maybe if I can help other people not feel so alone here if I join in and post the content that I’d like to see. Not sure how long it’s going to last thirty because this isn’t what I really want out of a platform like this. Posting memes and shit is actually kinda boring compared to commenting on memes and shit.

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              5 days ago

              This is honestly one of the things about the fediverse which makes me the most uncomfortable. It’s far too easy to impersonate someone, which could open up some very uncomfortable doors when paired with other doxing efforts, which Lemmy is also quite vulnerable to.

          • Call me Lenny/Leni@lemm.ee
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            6 days ago

            If you’re like me, people talking behind your back to spread misinformation about you is a guarantee. Sometimes it’s cited as a ban motive if it fails. But usually people forget there are two sides to every conflict.