When women riders and drivers told us they wanted more control over how they ride and earn, we listened. That feedback led to Women Preferences, features designed to give women the choice to ride with other women. Since our first pilots last summer, we’ve heard just how much that choice matters—from feeling more comfortable in the back seat to more confident behind the wheel.

    • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@reddthat.comEnglish
      245·
      7 days ago

      I never understood this fear.

      Always seems weird when people are more worried about accusations than sexual assault/harassement. The latter seems far more common ime, even if you are seen as a guy.

      • Glitchvid@lemmy.worldEnglish
        15·
        7 days ago

        I think it’s a perspective thing.

        Men are less likely to perceive themselves as potential SA victims (regardless of actual numbers): so the relative subjective “chance” of false accusations against them vs being victims themselves impacts their priorities.

        • minorkeys@lemmy.worldEnglish
          3·
          6 days ago

          I’ve been sexually assaulted multiple times over my life, all by women. I did not conceive of the actions as assault until I heard women’s claims, of the same actions, be accepted as a form of sexual assault. Men absolutely under report their sexual assault, especially as the definition continues to be expand, including more behaviors that men have already dismissed.

      • minorkeys@lemmy.worldEnglish
        21·
        6 days ago

        Why? Most people, most of the time, focus on the perceived threats to themselves. Men, some subgroup of men in particular, are at a higher risk of false accusations than of sexual assault. What is seen as a danger to them is likely what they’ll focus on. And that’s a very reasonable and fair thing to do. Is that not exactly what women do when they focus on the risk of sexual assault and not on the risk of false accusations?

        Both are legitimate fears. Both make sense. Both should be respected but only one actually is, across society.

        • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@reddthat.comEnglish
          2·
          6 days ago

          Men, some subgroup of men in particular, are at a higher risk of false accusations than of sexual assault.

          Are they? The former seems pretty much unheard of while the latter ain’t uncommon. I think the only subgroup of men where the risk of being “falsely” accused of SA is high are men who commit SA and just don’t believe it is SA. Of course perception of risk can vary and the (perceived) severity of the event matters as well.

    • FaceDeer@fedia.io
      184·
      7 days ago

      I have never been afraid of being falsely accused of assault or rape because I have never done anything even close to anything that can be defined as assault or rape, or shown any behavior or tendencies to do so.

      I think you’re missing the basic definition of what a false accusation is, here. The whole point of it is that you didn’t do the thing that you’re being accused of.

      • minorkeys@lemmy.worldEnglish
        1·
        6 days ago

        Yeah that’s pretty ignorant of them. It might reduce the risk, because the circumstances make it harder to convincingly lie about, but it doesn’t ensure anything. One circumstance of uncertainty and a skilled and motivated individual is all it takes.

    • yucandu@lemmy.worldEnglish
      101·
      7 days ago

      You ever tried taking a little girl to the park when you identified as a man?

      It gets really weird when complete strangers go up to her and ask her if she knows you.

      They don’t do that when you present as a woman.