Wanted to take my time to respond to respond there, but decided against it. They want it to ‘let it sort itself out’, so I think it’d be better to let it go myself. What I will do is be more mindful when commenting or upvoting crossposts on less active instances and don’t crosspost my own post to an instance I don’t think adds anything to the wider Lemmy community. Might decide to end my subscription to the lesser active / newer communities.