• Cerafredo@reddthat.com
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    7 hours ago

    The honest truth about life with people is… it depends on the person. You and the person you associate with both.

    There are valid generalizations to be made about the legal system, but in the end, it only brings OUT the worst in bad people, it doesn’t create them.

    I have couples who are happy, I have couples that are miserable in my life. It’s just human nature. You will get a lot of variety out there. Choose better. No one can hurt you without you allowing someone to make you miserable. I know that’s not what people want to hear, but there you go. That’s the bitter truth. You chose to compromise, and the bill came due.

    I repeat - the legal system is awful and biased. Yes. But it doesn’t delete the fact that ultimately you have a lot of choice out there.

    FYI: I’m single, never married, and will never be. I don’t even date anymore. That was my choice based on the path I’ve chosen in life. It was a spiritual decision. Not because of my past relationships - some were wonderful, some were miserable. I chose bachelorhood regardless. That’s just me.