• w3dd1e@lemmy.zip
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    22 hours ago

    Bc of what I went through with my ex’s kid, I talk help parents talk to kids about online safety. It’s good that you are so proactive!

    The #1 thing I see parents miss in those safety talks is coming up with a plan when something bad happens so kids know what to do.

    I spoke to my 14 year old niece last weekend. She wants to use Snapchat but her parents said no. I asked her what she would do if she got a dick pick from a stranger. I asked her what she would do if her boyfriend sent her one. Various situations like that.

    She didn’t know what to do, so together, we came up with a plan and identified an adult in her life that she would feel comfortable talking to that isn’t her parents. A third part adult that you and your kid can trust is helpful for kids that are afraid to talk to their parents and get grounded.

    For example: if your kid is online after they got grounded and something bad happened, they might be afraid to tell you since they weren’t suppose to be online, but maybe they’ll be okay speaking to an aunt or uncle.

    Every situation is different

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      16 hours ago

      Damn good points.

      Youngest is younger that. I’m just not letting him chat until he’s a teen

      Eldest has had all the appropriate talks before he got on discord.

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      21 hours ago

      @W3dd1e
      @rumba

      I have spoken to multiple parents about how dangerous this “game” is.

      I tell them that I’d let my kids walk across times square in NYC alone before I’d let them play Roblox.

      Honestly times square is pretty safe these days, but it seems to be an effective analogy to other parents emphasizing the kind of danger that roblox presents.