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    21 days ago

    In addition to what everyone else said, the terms just refer to completely different people. “single mother” obviously refers to the mother, while “children of absentee fathers” refers to… the children.

    And it’s a strawman anyways - nobody’s out there using “single mother” as a pejorative. I’ve heard it used far more often in a good sense.








  • Was AI actually being used in any mental health services? I know there’ve been a lot of articles lately about AI fucking people up when acting as their therapist but I’ve always assumed that was in the context of “person doesn’t have a real therapist, goes to chatgpt.com and vents to it on their own time”, not “person is receiving professional help, which then has them talk to ChatGPT”.

    So in other words: Is this law actually doing anything? Or is it a pointless law targeting something that doesn’t happen, so politicians can say they’ve done something without actually having done so?








  • Using they/them by default is already a good start - I would be surprised to learn if neopronouns are a thing at all in languages that don’t have gendered pronouns to begin with. they/them is perfectly acceptable to 99+% of people - both cis and LGBT+.

    You can just say LGBT or LGBT+. Lots of others are in use but very, very few people will legitimately get mad at you for picking one over any other.

    If someone specifically tells you to call them a certain thing, you should call them that thing. Otherwise just stick to they/them.

    If someone tells you their sexuality and it is not relevant to you, you have no obligation to ever bring it up again, just as with any form of oversharing.

    And as for why some people share these things even though you may personally find it too revealing - that’s just down to personal preference. Different things are important to different people in different ways. Some people might go through their life never giving their gender a single thought. Others might base their life around affirming and fighting for it in various ways. Most people are somewhere in the middle. Everyone has a cause they believe in a lot - for some people, this is that cause. As an “Aero Ace” (a term I had to look up - “aromantic asexual” for those who also haven’t encountered it), you’re probably pretty predisposed to not care about any of this stuff on any significant level.