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Cake day: February 15th, 2024

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  • Did they finally punt it off OTA CBS? One summer when I was a kid, I watched every day with my mom, only to give it up when I realized the constant parade of menace and torment that is inherent to an open-ended serialized drama was not something I found satisfying.

    To this day I absolutely respect the commitment and hustle to getting stories told though, even to the point of recasting characters, including aging kids up 10 years in a single summer at boarding school, or even using stand-ins with a soft voiceover announcing that “This week, the role of Kensington McRichashell will be played by Jennifer Whodafuqisdat.”


  • Been watching Helluva Boss on Amazon. I watched Hazbin Hotel season 1 a little while ago. I swear the elevator pitch and absolutely over the top sex and violence are there just to hide that Vivienne Medrano is a big softie. I also think there’s an interesting critique of modern culture inherent in making life in Hell less like an existential horror and more like the “Gilded Age + the 1950s,” but cloaked in the aesthetics of Beetlejuice (and similarly in making Heaven how it is).




  • This one is way below $100, but about ten years ago I bought a roll of twist tie wire at a dollar store. It’s fifty or a hundred feet, with a little guillotine cutter. It’s still just a bunch of twist tie, but it punches WAY above its weight with quality of life improvement. No more hunting for the one you dropped, or wondering how you’ll close up a veggie bag. Also good for (fairly light) pictures that use wire instead of sawtooth hardware, and I’ve used it in a pinch when I didn’t have cable ties. I dunno. It’s just an oddly useful substance to have lying in your junk drawer.





  • I wonder if this has to do with actual growth of the faith, or consolidating in light of shrinking temple attendance, which is different from and more exclusive than church attendance . Western Europe in particular can’t be fertile proselytizing ground these days.

    Oh, and my personal experience is a couple of decades out of date by now, but ExMo here. Happy to field questions. I’m no fan of the church, but I try to be somewhat even handed when discussing with folks.





  • I absolutely adore my kiddo and find meaning in my role as a dad that I did in very few other things I’ve done in life.

    That said, it definitely does change your life in a way where you will not be able to prioritize the things that are just for you anymore. I am both deeply happy to have become a parent and simultaneously very glad that my wife and I waited and got our finances in order and traveled and lived our life as a couple for almost a decade before we decided to be parents. For parents whose story wasn’t quite as deliberate, I can imagine a lot of conflicting feelings.