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Japan-based backend software dev and small-scale farmer.

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Cake day: August 14th, 2024

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  • Your statements do not support your initial arguments.

    You’ve conveniently just ignored everything I responded to about grandparents and women being forced out of their careers as a rule.

    Further, you state It's a culture of hating kids. and that is just not true.

    You are seeing some shitty people and extrapolating that out to “this society hates kids” which is 100% not the case. That is what I take issue with.

    I could go on at length about things Japan could do better for families and, in my decade here, there has been great improvement. There is still room to go. That does not mean that Japanese people hate children and do not want them. It does not mean that this is a Japan-only problem yet your argument is that Japan hates kids.

    As a long term resident, perhaps the problem isn’t that there isn’t these problems. It’s that you don’t see it.

    So you want to tourist-splain to me as someone who lives here and has for a decade? I have family, friends, and coworkers with young kids. I do hear their complaints. I do see their struggles. Again, what you are describing, that Japan has some systemic and cultural child-hating complex, is not at all supported by your argument. It is also laughable to me that you would think you have a better handle on Japan as a whole as a tourist who goes to a few cities. You want to know what you’re also not seeing? You’re not seeing the programs in place. You’re not seeing the variety of things that have been and are being done. You’re literally just making stuff up and saying that all of Japan (the grandparents, for example) is some way.


  • Also, any ideas on how to spend a week without Internet?

    I feel so very old all of a sudden, even as someone who’s technically (at least once they bumped x back to 1980) a milineal.

    Hiking, walking, reading, card games, board games, and even just talking. Cooking could be fun as well, depending upon the setup. Fishing, maybe?

    Edit: drawing, painting, knitting, etc. as well


  • Everything in your “fun fact” is not fact. I actually said “what the fuck” when I read it. I’ve been in Japan for a decade, both Tokyo and rural.

    Where also are these magical stroller-only elevators? Certain people are supposed to have priority (and, yes, some assholes ignore this which is not a problem unique to Japan), and there are also people who don 'look disabled" but need help (I can be one of them sometimes as my left leg and ankle are as much metal as anything else, though you wouldn’t know by looking at me).

    Japan has problems and had places.to.improve but your post is just wild wild to me as a long-term resident.