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Cake day: July 16th, 2023

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  • They can set their own penalties, but the most common penalty for the business would be paying the full term of agreed employment (so probably 1-2 years) even if they want to fire you early. The most common one for the employee would be repaying any signing bonus and/or all or part of the salary for the full term of the contract.

    You can enforce upon any legal and valid contract, but that’s obviously in a perfect world- many people can’t make the choice to take time off of whatever other job they might have found and pay an attorney/stay organized enough to find someone pro bono.

    However, if you’re working with a company large enough to have a legal department larger than one overwhelmed lawyer, the contract will likely have a chilling effect on them fucking you over (which is imo the ideal situation for the type of company you need to do this with, they’ll be on their best behavior)








  • People can be ignorant and even sexist without being manosphere. Neither of those strikes me as super Joe Rogan or Ben Shapiro-ey.

    But yeah, we’re living in two separate worlds, and when a person ignores what half of us experience, it’s no different from a white person saying that black people just need to be polite to the police, the way they are. (As a teenager, I was regrettably that white person. But I’ve grown, and so can others in that situation)





  • I’m from the US, so I grew up on a lot of talk about religious freedom (I know it’s just talk now, but it’s still colored my perspective) and these always rub me the wrong way. I grew up in an environment that is more prudish than the one I live in, and I’m proportionally more private than the people around me. I would be intensely uncomfortable if it were mandated that I wear a two piece bathing suit (edit: at the beach, not just around town), for example.

    I know that coercion exists and some of the people wearing headscarves wish they could express themselves more freely and feel oppressed by them, but can’t practically oppose them unless there’s a law backing them up. I get why the law exists, but it feels so, so much worse to force someone to expose a part of themselves that they consider private than to force someone to cover something up that they don’t consider private.

    It feels like the difference between a venue requiring long pants and a jacket and a venue doing public pat downs. Both can be uncomfortable, but one feels like a much more serious invasion of privacy.

    Is there something I’m not considering here? I could definitely be overlooking something, especially since I’m in contact with a ton of immigrants from Muslim countries and have very little contact with their descendants, who are probably the group most likely to feel pressured to wear a scarf they don’t want to.

    Edit: that said, I get that this one is for under 14s, which makes it a lot easier to stomach for me