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Cake day: November 13th, 2023

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  • My experience with this film was overwhelmingly positive but cut the other way.

    What I saw was a deliberate and not-at-all veiled allegory for classic narcissistic abuse, its victims, and how victimhood can be self-perpetuating until you get help and break free. I would go as far as to say that it’s both affirming, supportive, and informative to that end. There’s even a not-so-subtle explanation as to why you don’t see group therapy for this sort of thing (it’s on purpose and absolutely necessary).

    Everything else is fun acting, action scenes, special effects, set dressing, homage to old horror films, you name it, it’s in here. It all serves the story’s core premise brilliantly and keeps an otherwise dreadful topic - perhaps all to real for some of the audience - palatable for the film’s runtime.




  • Exactly. Prompt the other party to exercise the smallest amount of critical thought and you can watch it all unravel. It’s fucking exhausting, but that’s what it takes.

    I once heard someone drop some nonsense in a conversation about how “San Francisco is a dirty place.” Not only is “city = dirty” a common right-wing trope, but it had zero place in our conversation. It was just kinda parroted nonsense ham-fisted into our dialogue. I simply replied: “I’ve been to silicon valley and the touristy parts of downtown, and what I saw was a nice clean place; I can’t speak for the rest of it.” The guy stopped for a sec and said “well, I haven’t been there myself so I guess I can’t either.”





  • I’ve found I very much care about the actual creation of the art that I like.

    I totally get that. I think it’s like that for a lot of people.

    Sad thing is, there’s a bunch of folks out there that aren’t all that deep. So “pretty people doing pretty people things” is about the level of involvement there. There’s probably an escapism/fantasy element there too, which may explain why we have people that are famous for being famous.





  • I agree. To me, this is just an amusing fashion choice. If you’re gonna need the gear, so you may as well have fun with it.

    Honestly, when it comes to any accessory or tool, it’s going to have an aesthetic. Who cares what that is (as long as it’s not offensive). There’s also a tendency to consider terms like ‘fashion’ to be emasculating, but that’s what this is: fashion. Plus, kiddo isn’t going to care about logos and any gender representation; the only shit they’re giving is in their pants.

    Other fashion choices for diaper bags that could be explored:

    • Metal (leather/pleather, spikes, denim, band patches)
    • Goth (like above, but with less denim and more ankhs and crosses)
    • Gamer (cosplay appropriate bags, pokemon that’s also a bag, D&D mimic on a shoulder strap)
    • Sports (tons of practical and team-branded merch options here)
    • Office (suit material, inoffensive beige, briefcase handles and leather)
    • Handyman/tradesman (toolbag or toolbelt aesthetic, tool manufacturer branding)
    • EMT/firefighter (first-aid compartment, red/white aesthetic, cheeky “diaper emergency kit” on outside)
    • Outdoorsman (gore-tex, tent material, typical REI brands, lots of straps for different carry options)

    Edit: not a dad. Some of these may already exist. Point being: it’s all a matter of taste.




  • Someone with a provable, undeniable, zero stakes in the outcome of publishing said algorithm, while being of such moral fortitude as to be un-corruptable. IMO, if you find such a person, you’re probably better off just putting them in charge.

    Best bet is to raise the bar on any coordinated attempt to sabotage things. Multiple algorithms must be made by distinct parties, and the submissions compared against one another, and somehow averaged out (e.g. multiple running algorithms that vote amongst themselves) so that the only way to game the system is a very large and unlikely conspiracy.