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  • Farid@startrek.websitetoWitches VS Patriarchy@lemmy.catrue
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    17 days ago

    Smiling is not just an appearance. There have been several studies that show smiling improves person’s mood, even when it’s artificial. It’s called Facial Feedback Hypothesis. So yes, being reminded to smile, can be a genuine advice to improve one’s mood. It’s still not the best approach though.


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    18 days ago

    I don’t think it necessarily takes a “controlling personality” to tell somebody to smile more. It can totally be the case, but it can also be a misguided attempt at giving unsolicited advice. Would it be better for everyone if people smiled more? Absolutely, but it’s not always possible, and telling somebody to do it is unlikely to help.







  • Thanks for that etymology bit. I wonder why I never bothered to check, but it makes perfect sense, as I know Turkish.

    And yeah, I should have used “sometimes” not “usually”. Pan fried shawarma is a thing, while döner isn’t, so depending on the way it’s prepared it may technically not be kebab.

    Btw, kebab doesn’t need to involve any bread element whatsoever. In fact, in places that use the term natively, it usually isn’t. Kebab is just any grilled meat on a stick, and often is just the equivalent of BBQ.