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Cake day: June 28th, 2023

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  • I should add… I also take self defense very seriously, I lived in a town with active neonazis for a good portion of my adult life (outside of my control)

    My willingness to engage with strangers is backed up by street smarts, heavy emphasis on situational awareness, and a disarming personality. I also keep pepper spray in my hand in my coat pocket at all times and I carry a handgun.

    IMO nobody should let low scam resistance and physical vulnerability stop them from engaging with strangers if they have the ability to properly mitigate these risks. Wise up, get training, become exceptionally dangerous so you have the choice to be exceptionally kind.

    If weapons are offputting to you due to cultural or political reasons, get fit and allow yourself to sprint the other direction if you feel threatened. This is the best way to win 90% of self defense encounters anyways.


  • When I was growing up, attending Jewish day school, my Rabbi taught me that an opportunity to help a stranger is a gift. I would entertain the question and I recommend that you do too in the future. Obviously you don’t need to comply with any unreasonable requests but typically a stranger is only going to ask you for something that takes like 2 minutes of your time and no real loss.

    Helping people is enriching and will give you a sense of well-being in this fucked up grim world. You come out ahead in these situations. On the flip side, it’s clear that refusing this stranger is eating at you at least a little and has done some tiny damage to your soul, strictly figuratively speaking.









  • I really dislike this sentiment in this context. This sentiment is about applications made for people who barely use computers. It’s for like… iPhone apps to order food. This sentiment is just incorrect when it comes to technical tools made for professionals.

    Apply this to like any other profession and it makes it obvious how nonsense it is.

    If you need a manual to disassemble this engine, it’s a terrible engine.

    If you need a manual to pilot this helicopter, it’s a terrible helicopter.

    If you need a manual to operate this electron microscope, it’s a terrible electron microscope.




  • I’m aware of how words are used and I really, really do not like it. Nothing means anything anymore. Every word is just a vector that points to a sentiment. We’re at the point where you can agree with someone or say something completely sensible but if you use the wrong words (by focusing on their actual meaning, not what sentiment they point to) people will be at your throat. You can say something insanely fucked up but if you word it right everyone is nodding their head in agreement.

    Words mean things. I’m gonna keep operating as if words mean what they actually mean. I think people should care more about their language turning to mud. Precision in language is extremely important and everyone’s contentedness with having a poor grasp on their native language is a huge part of why it’s impossible to talk to anyone about anything real unless they already fully agree with you AND speak the same dialect of alternative word meanings.

    Not for nothing but this is also like 93% of the reason why communicating with NTs as an autistic person is hellish