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Cake day: August 9th, 2023

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  • I haven’t finished this one yet, do we’ll see.

    I’m guessing you mean the first trilogy (apologies if I’m mistaken), as the First Law universe continues for 6 more books after that (plus a collection of short stories). After the Last Argument of Kings, there are 3 “stand alone” novels, which are the strongest, in my opinion, and then a second trilogy, which is excellent.

    I believe there are more books planned for that universe, but The Devils is separate. The others I haven’t read as they’re Young Adult, so they probably have cheerier endings.

    Were you to read on, you’d probably find some joy for characters you like, but I think unhappy endings outweigh the happy ones. Of course, I could be mistaken and you’ve read all 9, because the ending of the last can definitely be described as devastating too!














  • I know people think they are being really helpful when they make suggestions, but I wish they would take a step back and ask first.

    I have lived with chronic fatigue for 18 years, and pain longer than that. My hair loss started over 20 years ago, and I can’t conceive of what it’s like to not wake several times a night, or to feel refreshed in the morning. Whatever they’re going to say, I’ve likely tried it, or researched it, or it’s obvious pseudo science that doesn’t merit research.

    It would be one thing if people had knowledge or expertise, but every time it’s something they’ve seen on Facebook, or something they think helped them with a very minor short-term issue.

    Sometimes I’m more forgiving because people don’t know my story, but when they know this has been almost my entire adult life, and they tell me to buy a supplement or look into grounding mats (seriously), it really annoys me.

    This isn’t about health professionals looking at my case and running tests or trying new treatments. It’s the people who see me at breaking point and ask if I’ve tried a pillow spray.


  • Yep. There is an expectation from others that you have to constantly “perform” disability in order for it to be valid.

    I can’t just not do things; they need doing. Sometimes those things are incredibly active, but I know I’ll pay for those later with a migraine or something else incapacitating. People don’t see that, or the calculations I have to make, they just see the active part.

    Also, no amount of rest leads to recovery or feeling replenished, so it doesn’t make sense to me to neglect activity just to lie there in pain anyway.





  • Even if he had been able to return the forms, there’s a chance he wouldn’t have got it.

    I used to do a load of reconsideration and appeals for work and the ignorance of the decision makers is staggering.

    One claim was denied, among other reasons, because my client could play a guitar. Another client, with epilepsy, was told that he didn’t need supervision when showering, as he should just sit down in the shower to mitigate injury from seizures.

    I found they ignored what we put in the form so frequently that it wasn’t worth doing more than the bare minimum and instead putting the work into the reconsideration.

    This poor man had nobody to fight for him, but the system should not be set up so that so many people have to fight. I don’t believe anyone with any cognitive or learning impairment, or mental health condition, would be able to go through the application process without support; it’s that difficult.

    And I would put money on them reinstating it after hearing of his death. The shit I have seen them pull, I think it’s likely.


  • Once again, it’s a right winger doing this heinous shit.

    I relistened to a podcast episode about Sound Of Freedom movie the other day, and they were saying it suits the right wing narrative to believe child abuse is shady organisations using shipping containers. That way, it distracts them from the fact that most children are suffering because of a member of their family or someone in a position of authority (e.g. church leader). They get to feel righteous without having to look at the real causes or challenge the conservative ideals of the traditional family and religion.