Just so you know, there’s a neat Piefed admin feature to add a note above the comment form for special communities. For instance on piefed.social, Rimu has added a reminder to respect the “be nice” guidelines on beehaw’s communities. WomensStuff could use that 😊
I don’t know if it federates though, you might need to individually ask server admins to add the note on theirs.
Some time ago, I thought “fuck courtesies” and began to answer with how I really feel. It’s now one of my (sadistic) little pleasures to see the uneasy face of someone that just received “oh, I feel like a ton of shit *fake smile*” as a reply. And it’s just adorable when someone cares enough to genuinely ask what’s going on. You find who you can count on if things really go south.