Do they try converting their guards and cellmates? Do they get in conflicts with the gangs? How do they adjust from being worshiped to just being another criminal? Or go from being leader of their compound to being put in solitary?

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    If it goes through, it goes, if it doesn’t it doesn’t.

    If you’ve already upset her enough that she’s cut contact, she likely won’t respond either way.

    And either way, you can let her get back to her life and try to become a positive experience in other people’s lives going forward.

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      thankfully they live on other side of country, so we really should never run into each other again unless the fates deem it so.

      it was kind of a “girl from highschool i had always wanted to ask out, but never had the confidence to”-scenario. childhood trauma from my time at that school made me remember it, and eventually her, so I looked her up…see how she was doing, noticed she was still single, figured I’d take my shot. let my emotions get the best of me I guess (really got to be cognizant of these acid flashbacks, till the trauma is all worked through)…

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        Now you know!

        You took a shot, didn’t hit it’s done, somewhere in there is something you can use to positive effect in the future.