There are certain things that I have to avoid thinking about in order that I don’t enter a depressive phase or become suicidal. You are asking me to think about those things.
You are asking a hungry man with no legs to walk a thousand miles for food. “Grow new legs!” you say. “Find a way!”
You are asking me to beat my head repeatedly into a wall until I get through it. I have literally and figuratively bounced my head off a wall. Both made me not want to do that again.
Maybe you’ve got yourself out of this exact situation. Good for you. I am glad you managed it.
There are certain things that I have to avoid thinking about in order that I don’t enter a depressive phase or become suicidal. You are asking me to think about those things.
You are asking a hungry man with no legs to walk a thousand miles for food. “Grow new legs!” you say. “Find a way!”
You are asking me to beat my head repeatedly into a wall until I get through it. I have literally and figuratively bounced my head off a wall. Both made me not want to do that again.
Maybe you’ve got yourself out of this exact situation. Good for you. I am glad you managed it.
I am not you.