Um, not sure how things are on Lemmy, but I am not a robot and never meant to offend other people here. I’m only speaking from my own brief experience.
That guy was a sweetheart in other ways, but he was completely ignorant of the risks choking could impose. For him, consent on intimacy meant also consent on choking, since he considered it a part of it.
And yes, this was a major reason why this relationships lasted for a very short time. We spoke about it and I hope he understood the point. It was over a decade ago, and I always thought that the guy lacked education / understanding, not conscience.
Also, “on TV” obviously meant porn. I quoted the man.
You’re perfectly fine. I recommend just blocking people like that. I’m still trying to learn to do so instead of arguing as it’s certainly improved my experience so far.
Um, not sure how things are on Lemmy, but I am not a robot and never meant to offend other people here. I’m only speaking from my own brief experience.
That guy was a sweetheart in other ways, but he was completely ignorant of the risks choking could impose. For him, consent on intimacy meant also consent on choking, since he considered it a part of it.
And yes, this was a major reason why this relationships lasted for a very short time. We spoke about it and I hope he understood the point. It was over a decade ago, and I always thought that the guy lacked education / understanding, not conscience.
Also, “on TV” obviously meant porn. I quoted the man.
You’re perfectly fine. I recommend just blocking people like that. I’m still trying to learn to do so instead of arguing as it’s certainly improved my experience so far.