quacky@lemmy.world to Showerthoughts@lemmy.world · 10 hours agonegativity is probably destructive to relationshipsmessage-squaremessage-square22fedilinkarrow-up119arrow-down16
arrow-up113arrow-down1message-squarenegativity is probably destructive to relationshipsquacky@lemmy.world to Showerthoughts@lemmy.world · 10 hours agomessage-square22fedilink
minus-squarequacky@lemmy.worldOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·9 hours agoThat’s true. They say that when couples give up and stop fighting that is when the relationship dies.
minus-squareTeNppa@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·7 hours agoI never understood why people feel the need to fight with their SO so much? Why can’t the issues be talked constructively and respectfully towards each other? Why the need to let things get so bad that you need to fight over things?
minus-squarequacky@lemmy.worldOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·edit-22 hours agoThey don’t know how to talk constructively. Emotional topics get, well, emotional
minus-squaresilly goose meekah@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·6 hours agoSome people consider any discussion about difficult matters ‘a fight’.
minus-squareTeNppa@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·6 hours agoYeah wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with that kind of a person…
So does avoiding issues.
That’s true. They say that when couples give up and stop fighting that is when the relationship dies.
I never understood why people feel the need to fight with their SO so much? Why can’t the issues be talked constructively and respectfully towards each other? Why the need to let things get so bad that you need to fight over things?
They don’t know how to talk constructively. Emotional topics get, well, emotional
Some people consider any discussion about difficult matters ‘a fight’.
Yeah wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with that kind of a person…