• LordKitsuna@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    We can’t talk to humans, admitting to having feelings and problems is seen as weak and unattractive. It’s just a another part of the load.

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      4 days ago

      I was emotionally vulnerable with my ex one(1) time and the relationship mysteriously began falling apart immediately afterwards.

      • Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        8 hours ago

        This kind of comment makes me sad.

        I wrote a whole thing and deleted it, but as a lady, everytime I see someone say this comment it makes me sad you’ve had that experience. Sometimes it’s for the best though, breaking up. I hope you find someone who truly hears you one day

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          7 hours ago

          I’ve been with my wife for over a decade now, she’s much better. But she is an exception to the general trend. Breaking up was definitely for the best.

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            4 hours ago

            My husband verbatim has called me an exception too, just not of women, but humans in general. Im glad you found your exception :)