• sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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    3 months ago

    Exactly.

    The flipside, however, is that it validates them asking even more questions, which is good for their development but incredibly annoying for the parent. That said, I could name a bunch of useless facts now because I’ve looked up way more than I should have. Dinner time is frequently like this (I have three kids, will just give them numbers):

    Kid 1 - How far away is Paris?

    Me - About…

    Kid 2 - What happens if you microwave a fork?

    Me - Hold on, let me…

    Kid 3 - How do you say “ounce” in Spanish?

    Me: Why would you even…

    Kid 2 - I’ll go try

    Me - No!! That could destroy the microwave! Sit down, let me answer Kid 1 first. About 5000 miles (made up number, but surprisingly close)

    Kid 1 - How much is that in inches?

    Me - Hold on, it’s Kid 2s turn. If you microwave a fork, you’ll get sparks and maybe break the microwave. We’re not going to try it, but maybe I can find a video for you.

    Kid 3 - You didn’t answer my question!

    Me - Sorry, I don’t know since I don’t speak Spanish, but I’ll look it up for you. (10 seconds later) Apparently “la onza,” though I don’t think anyone that speaks Spanish uses ounces.

    Kid 2 - What if I microwave my dolly?

    Kid 3 - Why?

    Me - <to Kid 3> They usually use metric, so either grams (gramo) or milliliters (mililitro). <to Kid 2> I don’t know, but it might ruin your dolly.

    And so on. I have to juggle three conversations at the same time, and sometime a fourth if my SO wants to discuss something. It’s absolute madness, but I do what I can to encourage curiousity, but I don’t fault anyone for giving lame answers.