• masterspace@lemmy.ca
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    3 days ago

    Neither will harm or effect your baby in any measurable way.

    What will effect them measurably negatively is having obsessive parents who min/max every decision rather than being happy and enjoying their child.

    Happiness comes from acceptance, not obsession.

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        5 hours ago

        I think people are downvoting you because “effect” is in there twice.

        The first one is right.

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            5 hours ago

            You’re not wrong.

            I wish I could see the edit timestamps on Lemmy, because I’m sure that comment was different.

            The stupid thing is, I’d originally written the comment with quotes to point it out, then chopped it back because I realised that I was massively overexplaining it. Those quotes would have been handy now!

            I’ll strike my comment out so it’s not misleading, but I’ll leave it up so this still makes sense.