• skeptomatic@lemmy.ca
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    7 hours ago

    Yeah one question. I said I was a bartender and waiter. I made about 20 maybe 30 grand gross probably a year with tips. It was a while ago, granted, but the cost of everything increased quite disproportionately to wages since then anyway and you seem like you’re trying real hard to prove something.
    So my questions is, what the fuck are you on about?

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      6 hours ago

      Were you raising kids? You’re making this super passive aggressive comment about the wife getting alimony and shit in a relationship where she’s the main caregiver for the kids. The whole thing comes across as super sexist. So what I’m “on about” is not only is your comment super sour and sad sounding, its also way out of whack with economic realities on the ground. So what are YOU on about is what I’m trying to figure out?

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        5 hours ago

        Why does it come across as sexist? Which part is untrue? Tell me about the “economic realities on the ground”, and the experience you’ve had that makes you an expert in this field.

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          18 minutes ago

          Ah I get it now, to quote another one of your quotes about sex work.

          "The.fuck with you all, seriously? Lol.
          1st, I wish I could get someone to pay for pics of my “seat meat”, but that’s not likely. And my wife won’t let me sell pics of her feet either… yet.

          2nd, What’s the premise here for all the jump up and defend?
          You’re all ready to go spend the time and schooling required to get into a trade or profession, put in work 40 to 100 hrs a week at a job you hate to get some money, get your 2 bedroom house and Toyota Camry, and pay your monthly spank bank subscriptions, just to enable your duck-lip injection OnlyFans neighbor who works 20 hrs a week slobbin knob on camera to roll her F-Pace into the driveway of her 7 bed 8 bath with pool, because she happened to be born with tits and ass and no gag reflex?
          How the fuck should zero skills amount to more affluence than skills?
          I gotta assume everyone here is a keeping up with the Kardashians super fan…
          Crazy. "

          Fucking gross dude. Go fuck yourself im out. You need a better perspective on women, go touch some grass.

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          22 minutes ago

          I just gave you economic data from the federal government, I’m not an expert but its basic shit.

          Rent here is like $1600 per month for a two bedroom apartment. How are you going to afford that plus feeding two children on about $3000 per month the after tax? Add on car, heat, electricity, food, internet, and any other expenses.

          Why does your original comment come across as sexist? Hmm maybe its the giant generalization that a traditional spouse would have alimoney child payment in a way that comes across as super sarcastic. What’s wrong with a spouse who is the primary childcare provider in a relationship NOT entitled to those things when that relationship ends? The kids and spouse still need to eat and have their expenses fulfilled, that doesn’t change because a relationship ends which is why those things exist in the first place.

          How about this, how about you explain what your original comment meant? How about you explain how its not sexist?