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WhatsHerBucket@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 2 months ago

Where do you draw the line between "staying informed" and avoiding all the stress in the news?

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Where do you draw the line between "staying informed" and avoiding all the stress in the news?

WhatsHerBucket@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 2 months ago
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  • YungOnions@lemmy.world
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    Shamelessly reposting this here, because it seems relevant:

    Negative news has a greater impact on people than positive: https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71516.pdf

    Media sites know this, and use it to drive engagement:

    https://www.nature.com/articles/s41562-023-01538-4

    https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/social-media-facebook-twitter-politics-b1870628.html

    And so, negative headlines are getting worse: https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0276367

    But negative news is addictive and psychologically damaging: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-we-worry/202009/the-psychological-impact-negative-news

    So it’s important to try and stay positive:

    https://www.goodgoodgood.co/articles/benefits-of-good-news

    If you want a break from the constant negativity, here are some sites that report specifically on positive news:

    • https://www.goodgoodgood.co/
    • https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/
    • https://fixthenews.com/
    • https://positivenewsfoundation.org/
    • https://www.onlygoodnewsdaily.com/

    And here’s 35 more: https://news.feedspot.com/good_news_websites/

    Or videos, if you’d prefer: https://youtube.com/@itssambentley

    Some communities on Lemmy you might be interested in:

    • !lemmybewholesome@lemmy.world
    • !goodnewseveryone@sh.itjust.works
    • !upliftingnews@lemmy.world
    • https://lemmy.world/c/hopeposting
    • https://lemmy.world/c/worldinprogress
    • https://lemmy.world/c/climatehope

    Remember, realistic optimism is important and, unlike what some might have you believe, is not the same as blissful ignorance or ‘burying your head in the sand’: https://www.learning-mind.com/realistic-optimism-blind-positivity/

    https://www.centreforoptimism.com/realisticoptimism

    And doesn’t mean you must stay uninformed on current affairs: https://www.goodgoodgood.co/articles/how-to-stop-doom-scrolling

    https://goodable.co/blog/tips-for-balancing-positive-and-negative-news/

    • TwistyLex@discuss.tchncs.de
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      Thank you for reposting it! I’ve been looking for resources like these.

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        You’re welcome, happy to help. Stay positive, friend!

  • SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz
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    There is no line for me.

    I’m incredibly fragile and seeing people I care about be hurt by all this hurts me incredibly much.

    I’m now avoiding the news and doing my best to instead be a positive influence, help where I am able, offer support, donate what I can, etc.

    I refuse to let evil fucking idiots steal my joy.

  • KeenFlame@feddit.nu
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    Read news

    Get involved

    Have a really good revolution

    Stop ignoring your whole body telling you to resist

    To do something about it

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    I wish there was a way to stay informed without the rage-bait delivery methods

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      I’d be happy with a few less legitimately rage-inducing events too.

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        More than few of these rage-inducing events are people saying they or someone else is going to do something that never ends up happening and tens of millions of people got angry literally over nothing. A quite significant portion of today’s “news” are pure speculation.

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      Unfortunately we are in clown-world and the actual fucking news is rage-inducing, even with impeccable journalism.

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        I don’t feel rage when I watch the news, even when I see stories I don’t like.

    • intensely_human@lemm.ee
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      Have an AI summarize it for you?

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    I listen to my body, which includes my mind. I start feeling bad physically or mentally, I disconnect and do something else.

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    I actually had this issue months ago, I kept seeing everything on Instagram regarding a particular major problem. Seeing the deaths of innocents and the governments cheering it on just made me angry, moody, anxious and an immense hate towards humanity in general.

    I was also jobless in these months (glad got work now) and that made it worse.

    Eventually I heavily restricted myself;

    • Only 30 mins of scroll in Instagram, checking the news and such.
    • No talks about politics for at least a month.
    • Read more books to dive in.
    • Play fun games (Mario Wonder, Captain Toad Tracker, Mario kart and Catherine Full Body).

    Got a job now but I still keep most of the things I restricted myself. Despite everything, I’m in a much better mindset than before.

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    I stick to few sources that generally cover major without the doom and gloom. Generally YouTube channels are pretty good imo.

    • TLDR News (UK, EU and Global) is a great series of channels for that.

    • Caspian report on YouTube for some geopolitics/strategic outlook.

    • Real life lore for couple of deep dives on non-current issues.

    • Money and Macro for macro economic news.

    • Just have a think for climate science and energy transition news.

    • “Good news” is just nice feelgood news.

    Traditional media for closely following elections when they come out such as exit polls.

    For the Gaza issue I did break the cycle and check on Al Jazeera which is the best for middle East news.

  • Dr. Moose@lemmy.world
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    Slow news.

    Seriously, you don’t need to know all of this shit every day. I do a weekly catch up on Saturday and indont think I’ve ever missed anything important. If anything some times gives news to clear up.

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    This video helped me A LOT: https://youtu.be/yxAd8Owl-7A

    Reduce the amount of news and media you consume. It isn’t healthy. Check in with your own mental health on a regular basis and use that as a barometer. When you start feeling overly stressed and frustrated, it’s time to take a break.

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      It’s ok to be angry or upset but if you can’t do anything about it, it’s not worth it. You should remain informed and also know that if you’re feeling frozen or at a loss, the plan is working. It’s meant to keep you down, drown you, and cause you to desensitize or lose hope. Don’t fall for it. Rise up in ways that you can.

      https://youtu.be/By1Z1nk31iE

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    I have a stance where I prefer to be minimally informed than misinformed. I will intake what little information I want before I am overstimulated from the poor state of journalism. I’m sorry but I have to be one of those headline readers and if it’s very, very intriguing enough to want to read it, I will. But I really can’t be bothered to read a lot of what’s out there. I read the comments and reactions which arguably, has proven to be far more knowledgeable than the article in question.

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    I draw the line at whiskey/beer. I need both in order to watch the evening news. I won’t engage with socials until properly lubricated by both.

    “This is fine.” (meme)

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      lol, what is your favorite whiskey for such an evening?

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        Generally start with crown royal and 7-up over ice until my 12-ounce 7-up is empty then switch to coors banquet (stupid stubby bottles) until it’s time to turn in - which is now.

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    There isn’t a line, you are either informed or not.

    If you care more about the illusion of mental health more than your life or reality then bury your head in the sand.

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