So I moved back to my city after 7 years where my family lives.

It’s been 2 years but I never really enjoyed people here. Mostly people I met were from my previous circles, family, school friends and their partners.

I always thought something was off and maybe over time I will figure things out but it was just not happening.

Yesterday I went to dinner with my partners friends and damn it was whole different vibe. As if it’s a different culture. I really enjoyed talking and was genuinely interested in next meeting.

Resparked my joy in meeting people and I guess I was with wrong people and there are people who are out there who vibe match with me but it’s so hard to find them.

  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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    23 hours ago

    I actually don’t bring my phone when I leave the house. Especially if it’s for a short trip under an hour or 2.

    It blows people’s minds and they immediately start lecturing me how stupid, rude and irresponsible it is. What if someone texts me and I can’t reply for a few hours? THE HORROR.

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      23 hours ago

      Its great doing this! The only issue is I drive older cars so the phone is very nice in case of a breakdown ha

      A dumb phone for calls only would be good for that. But youd have to preload it with phone numbers of tow companies and friends etc. Would be pretty easy…

      I much prefer not having my phone on me. Humans forgot how to be bored and instantly turn to the little dopamine device at any chance